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by: Hak Ty
Many people believe today that teenagers lack respect for authority,
lack respect for school, and even lack respect for family. For
the most part they are looked down on by society as being disobedient
trouble-makers. Being a teenager isn’t an easy task. They’re
constantly being exposed to new, scary situations, and it’s
hard for any teenager to overcome one of these obstacles because
of how they are looked at by other people, and one of the biggest
problems a teenager has to face is depression.
About 5% of teenagers suffer from severe depression. More often
than not they have a very hard home life usually consisting of
depressed parents or abusive siblings. Teens who are under a lot
of stress, or suffer from anxiety and learning problems, are at
higher risk for depression. Highschool is the leading cause of
stress in a teenagers life, and parents need to take that into
consideration. Instead of making your kids do homework you need
to help your kids do homework. Another thing teenagers are exposed
to is drinking and drug usage. If you catch your kid drinking alcohol
or smoking pot there are many things you can do besides yelling
at them and grounding them. Try to explain to them what happens
when people drink and drive. Talk to them about your life experiences
with drinking and drugs. Or you can even negotiate with them and
tell them they can drink if they do it within the household. Anything
is better than just yelling at them and leaving them alone, because
chances are they will go out and do it again. Drinking is a sign
that your teenager may be depressed, so you also need to realize
yelling at them will not solve the problem. There are also many
other signs to watch for if your teenager is suffering from depression:
- Sudden loss of interest in doing activities they once enjoyed
- Little to no energy. Sleeps a lot
- Increased anger and hostility
- Self-Injury, which may lead to suicide attempts
- Poor concentration in home or at school
- Persistent boredom
You’re probably wondering what you should do if your teenager
is depressed. The first step is to seek professional help. You
might think because your the parent it would be best for you to
help your child out, but the truth is you need to find real professionals
to help your teenager through their depression. Unless you’re
a certified therapist, I wouldn’t recommend you taking the
responsibility to help your kid’s depression. You can support
your child, and talk to them frequently, but don’t try to
cure them. Also be aware of the many types of medicines out on
the market for depression. If a therapist suggests a certain type
of pill for your teenager, look it up on the internet and find
out all of the information you can on the medicine. There are many
types of pills that have very bad side effects, and you as the
parent need to make sure what you think is appropiate for your
child. Remember, the therapist only suggests these pills, you need
to make sure if it’s the best route to take. Also keep in
mind that if your kid suffers from any kind of medical disorder,
you let your therapist know before your teenager takes any kind
of medicine, and let your doctor know what the therapist is wanting
to prescribe them.
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